How can you educate a sane individual who will benefit himself and society? How do you prevent your child from having any evil reactions, using any inappropriate words towards you and everyone else when he or she grows up? How does poor education affect the individual? How do you make your child an understanding individual with a high personality through good education and awareness? These are the questions we are looking for answers to, especially after hearing about some unwanted events that have happened in Kurdish society. Of course, it has its own reasons, which we will try to explain the causes and solutions.
What is unhealthy education and what does it mean?”
The foundation of the development of any society goes back to an educated individual. The education of an educated individual goes back to proper education. That is, we must educate our children through advice and talk, and most importantly create a friendly atmosphere between parents and their children, so that the child is not afraid to speak and express his opinions and reducing the child’s personality in front of others.” We can present the methods of improper education in several points: –
- Educating children in a violent manner, shouting at them, instead of gentle advice.
- Transgression the child in front of others and exposing his shortcomings.
- Creating fear in the child’s heart, so that he cannot speak of his own free will in his family and has no opinions.
- Not meeting his needs properly, and makes the child feel inferior to his friends.
- Lack of a friendly relationship between parents and their children.
How does develop a productive individual?”
Educating a thoughtful and mature person requires two parties, the first is the family and parents, and the second is the schools and educational institutions in society. Schools play a key role in this process alongside parents. They should not only be concerned about learning, but there is something more important than education: education. Based on respect, responsibility and love for the family and society, Teachers and parents must treat children as friends in order to raise them as productive, understanding and conscious individuals who will be a source of pride for the family and society as a whole.
Finally, what do parents expect from a child who has been grew violently and has not instilled any love for life? Do they expect that child to respect them in the future? No, it will never be like this. As we see these unwanted incidents every day, I am never saying that the killers are innocent, but this is just an example.
